Why Men Do What They Do

Why do men do what they do? By: M. Breeze A close friend of mine (@darbae32) asked me a question today. She wanted to know the answer to a question that every woman has asked them selves at least once. For centuries women have asked the same question, "why do men do the stupid shit they do"? The answer is very simple, we don't feel that it is stupid. I mean really what is the problem here? So what if you think our friends are stupid, we like them and that's why they are our friend. If women would take the time out to figure out why they are different from us they may understand why we do what we do. I hear it from women all over the world and it's the same story no matter the race.  The biggest problem that the average woman faces from her spouse is infidelity. I don't need any scientific proof that men cheat because I know men who cheat on their spouses.  I see the pain that is caused by the cheating spouse and the lack of trust that is displayed by the spouse who was played. But ladies before you slice his tires and take a ride to the other woman's job, think and ask yourself what role did you play to make him destroy your relationship. This is what the average woman fails to look into. Examine yourself and your actions. Are you that same woman that he first met? Do you still put on the smell good lotions, get your hair done and keep your vaginal jungle under control? As silly as it may sound these may be the reasons that your guy chose you out of the rest of the women in the world. Do what you have to do to keep him interested in you.  Trust me ladies when I say that we guys can go out and come home late it doesn't mean that we are out having sex with other women. Truth be told we probably got hung up playing Madden and just lost track of time. Ever since he entered the relationship with you he has had to shun some of his friends just because you don't like them. You don't think about how this drastic feminine decision can make his friends hate him.  You fail to realize that he has broken the code bros over hoes, thus elevating you to a position that demands respect from the circle of bros. I believe that women don't understand why we do what we do and this is where the problems arise.   So we all know that the few bad guys ruin it for the good guys in the world. Every man knows what I'm talking about. We have all had that one lady that has been in a bad relationship and we already start the relationship under scrutiny. Where is the trust? Just because your last two boyfriends fucked you over it does not give you the right to treat the next one like shit. It's not fair to us or the next person in line. Ask yourself how are you in the bedroom? Are you boring or fun?Are you a missionary style girl or will you let a nigga wreck shop? Does he jump at the opportunity to get you undressed or do you feel that he doesn't appreciate you in bed? If you chose the latter of the two you guys have issues that stem from the bedroom, which will lead to other problems if left undressed. Let me assure you that what you won't do for him someone else will. A big problem in the African American community is that a lot of black women are not in touch with themselves sexually. Notice I did not say all of them but most. Alot of brothers have the idea that if my girl won't do it I'll find a white girl to. This bedroom issue can easily be resolved. Try watching a porn with your guy and imitate exactly what the actress is doing. Please him and let him see the freak in you and I guarantee he will start to respond more positively during sex.  I will follow this article with "why do women do what they do". I may even get a guest writer to do it.