Listen To Your Woman....Or Someone Else Will

Lending An Ear

By: M. Breeze

It's a proven fact that a woman speaks 13,000 words a day while men only speak 2,000. What is it about women that makes them talk so much? How is it that a group of men can sit in a room watch TV not say a word to each other and have a blast? If you are a guy it's a good chance that you have a girl that you spend a majority of your time with and a greater chance that she talks non stop about nothing and everything. A majority of the time I bet you don't get to say anything but "for real".

It's a lot, but keep in mind fellas your only getting about 3,000 words a day from your spouse after you come home from work and have dinner and get ready for bed.. Now if you think that's a lot do you ever wonder where the other 10,000 words went to? Take a minute and look at her day.

She spends 8 hours a day at work. Who are her co-workers? While she was word vomiting to you about her job did you hear her mention who it is that she works with. Is it an all male crew? All female? Mixed? Did you even hear her say that? Do you know who she takes break with? Who she emails? Not trying to make you nervous really it's nothing to worry about she probably told you but you didn't hear her.

Now while you may have not been listening someone else has. Everyone knows the best way to find out about a house hold is to ask the woman. Now someone else has information about your household. It may not be much but as time passes a woman will reveal more and more about her family,sex life, finances and often compare them to the person that she is talking to on a daily basis. So now you have a co-worker that's getting 6,000 more words a day from your woman.....ever think about that?

My advice men is when your woman is talking to you stop for 2 minutes and listen to what she has to say. 97% of the time what she had to say was pointless anyway but you showed that you were willing to listen to her. And when we actually communicate back with them they seem to talk more because we are showing them attention, which is something they crave. So don't give anyone else the joy of having your woman talk to them keep 9,000 words for yourself and send her to work with the rest.